Do you struggle with telling your kids about the birds and the bees?
You are a good parent. You are involved with your kids education, social life and activities. You think you should be the one to educate your kids about puberty, sex and growing up, but you aren’t sure exactly what to say, when to say it, or how much information to give. When your kids ask questions, you feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. Or when you try to talk to them, THEY feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. You want to be open and honest but your parents didn’t exactly do a great job with the birds and the bees talk so you just aren’t sure how to do it. You have a great relationship with your kid and you’d like to make it last through adolescence.
You are worried that if you wait too long to have “The Talk”, you’ll be like the Mom in the photo.
If your child’s feet are catching up to yours, they are between the ages of 9-13, or you can smell puberty a’knockin, it is time to have “The Talk”.
Today’s kids are bombarded with sexual content from the media, their friends, music lyrics, Youtube videos and more. Now, more than ever, kids need their parents to help them understand the confusing messages they are getting around sexuality, growing up and intimacy.
We have the solution!
We have created an online, at-home, sex education class for parents to take with their 9-13 year old son or daughter. This 5-week class will help open up the lines of communication on embarrassing topics and show your kids that YOU are the person to turn to with questions or problems later on. Parents and kids hear the information they need, presented in a factual, relaxed way. When you giggle together, get embarrassed together, share awkward memories and role play fun but relevant situations, it creates a bond that will last a lifetime.
After taking Time for The Talk online class with your son or daughter, you will have….
- Covered the basics of everything your 9-13 year old needs to know.
- Demonstrated to your child that you are willing and able to talk about sex related topics.
- Learned how to speak the truth in a relaxed, fun way, even if you feel embarrassed.
- Formed a deeper bond with your child.
- Experienced being a student with your child and learned the same things together.
- Demonstrated the benefits of intimacy and taking the time to have important conversations.
- Opened-up the lines of communication and created an ongoing dialogue.
- Crossed “Have The Talk” off your list of things to do!
Research shows that this kind of parent/child sex education class with pre-teens will later….
- Reduce the rate of teen pregnancy.
- Increase the use of birth control.
- Delay first intercourse.
- Reduce the number of sexual partners.
- You know that it’s important to make time for “The Talk” but you haven’t gotten around to it yet.
- You covered the basics with your kids but realize there is new stuff kids are being exposed to all the time and you want to make sure you are covering it all.
- You want to be able to fit your own values into a sex education program.
- You prefer an honest, open, fact-based approach(no threats or fear here).
- You enjoy the freedom to giggle, gasp and have a good time with your child.
- You want to build and maintain a strong bond with your son or daughter that can last a lifetime.
- You take your job as a parent seriously and want to empower your child to make healthy decisions for his/her future.
- You want to support by having access to on-going videos, blogs, and a private forum.
- You like our “knowledge is power” philosophy and relaxed style and think our approach would be a good fit with your family.
This program may not be right for you if…
- You believe in fear-based tactics when it comes to talking about sex and other teen issues. (Despite the mountains of evidence that they don’t work, these programs are still being taught, but not by us.)
- Your child has not been exposed to tv, popular music, magazines or the internet. This program is designed to prepare modern kids for a world including texting, YouTube and social media. We don’t want to introduce your child to a world you don’t want them to know exists.
- You already have a strong sex education philosophy and have no problem sharing conversations and information with your children, and they are receptive to it.
Watch this 3-minute video to see what others have to say about the program.
Is it Time for the Talk?
Got Questions? We Got Answers!
Do I need to be online at a certain time each week?
No. Time for the Talk is designed for you to complete when it fits into your schedule. You have complete flexibility with when you complete the class with your child. One week you may choose to do class on Saturday morning and the next on a Wednesday night. It is made to fit your schedule. We do encourage you to schedule the time each week though since we know how busy families get.
How much time does each class take?
Each week the video and Fun Sheets take anywhere from 30-60 minutes to complete. The beginning of each video will give you an approximate time for that week’s class. The time will vary from family to family; depending on how much time you spend on the Fun Sheets.
What if I have questions during the program? Are you available for help?
We are always available to answer your questions via email. You can also post a question or comment on our private Facebook page. (You receive access after purchasing the program.)
What if my child doesn’t want to take these classes with me?
This is a very normal response. Remember, we created this program because kids aren’t usually excited to talk with their parents about sex and their changing bodies. From our experience, after the first class students typically become much more comfortable and look forward to spending this one-on-one time with you.
How much does Time for the Talk cost?
Our 5-week Video class costs $126.00.
We believe that this is one of the best investments you can make in your child’s future. By opening the lines of communication, you will teach your child that they can come to you, even when the topic is uncomfortable. As they enter their teen years, they will know that you are there for them. This is priceless.
Is this an Abstinence Only program?
No. We do discuss abstinence and how it is the only 100% effective way to prevent pregnancy. However, we also mention birth control as a means for preventing pregnancy. All of this information is presented in an age-appropriate manner. Kids ages 9-12 are usually in the “OMG this is so gross! I’m never doing that! stage” so we tell the facts of life, while still meeting them where they are.
Do you teach a certain set of values?
No. Time for the Talk is created for you to insert your value system into our program. We provide the facts and encourage you to add, and discover, your values throughout the classes.
What if I’m not ready for all this?!
As parents it can be really tough to recognize that our kids are growing up and will become teenagers. We know that they will always be our babies. However, ignoring the changes that are coming for your child does not help prepare him or her. As parents, its unlikely that we will ever feel ready for the teen years. However, you can ease your worries by working on educating your child and becoming comfortable talking together about all of these topics. You can do this and we will help you every step of the way.
What are people saying about Torie & Marlene’s Time for The Talk class?
What kids say…..
- This class made it easier to share what I’m feeling.
- Now that I’ve done the class, it isn’t awkward anymore.
- My favorite thing was being with my mom without my younger brother around.
- I wish it wasn’t over.
- I liked learning about peer pressure and how to handle it. This class made me more confident.
- This class has made me more aware of the world I live in. I don’t want it to end.
- I liked hearing what questions other kids asked.
- My favorite thing was spending time with my mom.
- I liked watching my dad get embarrassed. It was so funny.
- It made me understand more about how things work and answered my questions.
- At first I was weirded-out but then it was really good.
- This class makes me more comfortable talking about sex. I like it not being awkward.
- My favorite part was acting out the role-play situations with my mom. She’s funny.
- Now that I can talk to my mom about sex, I can talk to her about anything.
- I liked hearing what it was like for my dad when he was in middle school.
What parents say:
- This class is the BEST gift I have given my daughter.
- I liked going through the class with my child and learning together.
- It’s so much easier to talk with my son now, for both of us.
- I like knowing that she has all the correct information and that I’m here to answer her questions.
- Everything was age-appropriate, relevant and valuable to my son.
- I liked the relaxed and casual way topics were discussed.
- Things were discussed that I never would have thought to mention, but am so glad he knows about now.
- I especially liked the values exercise and understanding healthy relationship activity.
- I loved the honest and straight-forward approach.
- I loved opening a dialogue with my daughter that I know will be a lasting conversation. Her confidence blossomed and our bond has tightened. Thank you.
- The openness of the topic was refreshing. It was complete and well delivered.
- Honestly, this was exactly what was needed.
- I wish I had more kids so I could do it again.
- I wish I had done this with my older child.
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